Wednesday, June 02, 2021

Work !!

Work clogs the day 
feels like no other way 
you wake up and check your mail 
and before you know its close to mid day 
you wonder where time went 
and ponder how you didnt know at your end 
Project issue, people issue 
you try to muster through your way 
You got to be understanding , you got to be polite 
पर मेरी सुनने वाला कौन है भाई 
पक गयी है आत्मा ऐसा लगे मुझे 
फिर भी दिन रात अपनी काम की गाड़ी चले 
कब वो दिन आएगा सुकून से काम करने का 
और इस harakiri से बचने का 
सोचता हूँ ये एक भ्रम ही है 
तो आवाज़ आये सो जा भाई तूने घिसना इधर ही है

Friday, April 16, 2021

Excel PPT

 इंसान अब दिल से ज्यादा दिमाग से सोचे ....

तो जीना खतम सा लगे......

कहां उसे दुनिया के हसीन नजरों का इंतजार था....

और कहां वो दिन रात एक्सेल पीपीपीटीटी मैं काम करें.....


कैसी ये कश्मकश ....

ये घर और गाड़ी और समाज का status ..... 

बाहर से तो बड़ा सुखी लगे सबको....

पर अंदर अपने हर रोज ये घुट घुट के मरे..

Saturday, February 20, 2021

The Psychology of Money

 After long a full book read. 



- Your personal experiences with money make up maybe 0.00000001% of whats happened in the world, but maybe 80% of how you think the world works.

-How different experiences can lead to vastly different views within topics that one side intuitively thinks should be black and white.

- Luck and risk are both the reality that every outcome in life is guided by forces other than individual effort. They are so similar that you cant believe in one without respecting the other.

- The line between the bold and reckless can be thin. 

- Risk and Luck are dopplegangers

- Focus less on specific individuals and case studies and more on broad patterns

- There is no reason to risk what you have and need for what you dont have and dont need.

- Knowing when you have enough

- Enough is realizing that the opposite an insatiable appetite for more - will push you to the point of regret.

-Takeaway from ice ages - you done need tremendous force to create tremendous results.

-Getting money is one thing. Keeping it is another.

-Compounding only works if you can give an asset years and years to grow.

-Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays

-The ability to do what you want, when you want , with who you want, for as long as you want, is priceless. It is the highest dividend money pays.

-Having a strong sense of controlling one's life is a more dependable predictor of positive feelings of wellbeing than any of the objective conditions of life we have considered.

- Money greatest intrinsic value- is its ability to give you control over your time.

- No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are.

- People generally aspire ot be respected and admired by others, and using money to buy fancy things may bring less of it than you imagine.

-Humility, kindness and empathy will bring you more respect than horsepower ever will.

- Wealth is what you dont see. Wealth is financial assets that havent yet been converted into the stuff you see

- If you spend money on things, you will end up with the things and not the money

- Rich is current income , may be spend on car/ house. But wealth is hidden.Its income not spent.

- Wealth is an option not yet taken to buy something later. Its value lies in offering you options, flexibility, and growth to one day purchase more stuff that you could right now. 

- Building wealth has little to do with your income or investment returns, and lots to do with your savings rate.

-Learning to be happy with less money creates a gap between what you have and what you want. 

-Past a certain level of income , what you need is just what sits below your ego. 

- One of the most powerful ways to increase your savings isnt to raise your income. Its to raise your humility. 

- Saving does not require a goal of purchasing something specific. You can save just for savings sake. 

- Saving is a hedge against life's inevitable ability to surprise the hell out of you at the worst possible moment. 

- The flexibility and control over your time is an unseen return on wealth.

- Having more control over your time and options is becoming one of the most valuable currencies in the world.

- There are times when its fine to be reasonable instead of rational with money.

- History is the study of change, ironically used as a map of the future.

- The correct lesson to learn from surprises is that the world is surprising

- The purpose of Margin of safety is to render the forecast unnecessary

- You can be risk loving and yet completely averse to ruin.

- The ability to do what you want, when you want , for as long as you want , has an infinite ROI.

- The biggest single point of failure with money is a sole reliance on a paycheck to fund short term spending needs, with no savings to create a gap between what you think your expenses are and what they might be in the future. 

- People are poor forecasters of their future selves.

-Asymmetric aversion to loss is an evolutionary shield. Organisms that treat threats as more urgent than opportunities have a better chance to survive and reproduce.

- Progress happens too slowly to notice but setbacks happen too quickly to ignore.

- Growth is driven by compounding , which always takes time. Destruction is driven by single points of failure, which can happen in seconds, and loss of confidence , which can happen in an instant. 

- Stories are more powerful than statistics. 

- The more you want something to be true, the more likely you are to believe a story that overestimates the odds of it being true.

- Everyone has an incomplete view of the world.

- Coming to terms with how much you dont know means coming to terms with how much of what happens in the world is out of your control. And that can be hard to accept.

- Go out of your way to find humility when things are going right and forgiveness/compassion when they go wrong.

- Less ego, more wealth. saving money is the gap between your income, and wealth is what you don't see.

- Use money to gain control over your time

- Become Ok with lot of things going wrong. You can be wrong half the time and still make a fortune.

- Uncertainty, doubt and regret are common costs in the finance world. They are often worth paying. But you have to view them as fees (a price worth paying to get something nice in exchange) rather than fines ( a penalty you should avoid)


Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Talaash


Hai talaash mujhe ek chij ki jise kehte sukoon

jeevan ki is bhagdaud mai kahin ho gayi hai ghumm


katputli bane phir rahe sare 

dor kisi aur ke haath me thamai

 

kisi ko jamane ki phikar 

to kisi ko lage paisa hi hai iska uttar 


kisi ko na pata use kitna chahiye 

agar pucho to bole aur chahiye 


EMI ka jamana kharab

kamane se pehle udhari mai le doobe janab


Hai talaash mujhe ek chij ki jise kehte sukoon

kambhakth dikhti nahin kahin pai mujhe huzoor


hai ikattha karne mai laga insan

pagla na jane hai wo nadaan 


bangla, gadi, paisa sab ho jiske paas

phir bhi rato mai need na ayee use bhaisahab


jitna ikkathha kiya use khone ka dar

aadmi fas gaya is chakravyooh ke andar 


hai sukoon bada ajab janab

ye dastak de tab jab ikattha karne ki adat se chhute aap


jo karm karen phal ke bina 

jiske dil mai ho har ek ke liye dua 


doosron ke kaam aa sake aisa nazariyan rakhen

phir dekhen sukoon apna ghar basayen aapke zahan mai 


Hai talaash mujhe ek chij ki jise kehte sukoon

itna asan nahin janab ise hasil karne mai lage junoon


Monday, December 21, 2020

musafir

मुसाफिर बहुत से मिलेंगे raah मे


मग़र हमसफ़र kuch ही होंगै

जरा संभल कर चले हुज़ूर

ज़मने ki ले राखी है fursatiyon nai

Sunday, November 15, 2020

Janamdin (Happy Birthday)

 


Lo aa gaya wo din

jab dharti pe padhare hum 


dost bole happy birthday

hame lage budhe ho chale 


Birthday manane ka khayal kisko aaya

ye soch mera man lalchaya


kya hai aisa is din mai khas 

bas umar hi to badhi hai mere baap


hai aajkal ye ek junoon sa

bacche bhi bole manao mera birthday cool sa


birthday gift ka ban gaya hai culture

aur return gift bhi chal rahain hai jamkar


social media pe duniyaan deti tumhe badhai

par phone karke do bate karne mai katrai


janamdin pe karo kuch aisa

jo yaad rahe tumhe hamesha


socho ho tum kitne dhanwan

ki gaadi chal gayi ek aur saal


batoon khusiyan doosro ke saath

unki madad karke jinhe jaroorat hai aaj


janambin ko bana do wo thahrav

jahan apna nahin doosro ka bhi sochoge mere yaar


khushi manao apno ke saath 

kuch nek karo us din kisi aur ke liye bhi yaar 


waqt ho chala hai kharab

aisa lage sirf apne me simat kar reh gaye hai insan


ye duniya ek bhram si lage

pagla jane ka hame dar sa lage


sab chij ki daud lagi hai aaj 

kisi se baat karne ka samay nahin hamare paas


chalo badle is daur ko yaar

zara hatke manaye janamdin aaj


Sunday, November 01, 2020

Khush ! :)

Kya hai wo jo hame hasata

Sochta rehta ye man mera


Kabhi lage ki paisa deta ye sab khushi

phir dil kahen ki ye nahin wo chiz


kya hai wo jo hame hasata

dhoondta phire ye pagla diwana


kabhi lage ki apne yaar se mile khushi

phir dil kahe ye nahin wo chiz


Mann bole ajeeb sa ehsaas hai ye

dil bole dimag ki soch se bahaar hain ye


Samaaj bole khushi mile apno se

Dil bole apne lage parayoon mai


Ye kaisi uljhan hai na jane dil

phir bhi muskurayeen kuch yadoon main


kya hai wo jo hame hasata

mere samajh mai na aata


phir kahe dil zara gehra socho

aapne aap ko to pehchanoo 


kari koshish phir dil se hamne

ye soch ke ki kuch to fal nikle


dil bole aare naadan

samajh kyoon rahe ho ise janab


ise samjhne mai ulajh jaaoge

jo na samjhe to haasil kar paaoge


ye labzon se na ho bayan

ise to sirf rooh mai mile panaah


iske piche bhago jitna ye utna bhaage aage

jab karm karo bin fal ke ye daudi chali aaye


jab tumhe dekh log kahen bade khush ho mian 

to rooh tumhari bole JI HAAN !!