
Monday, January 26, 2009
The Empty Raincoat

Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Tragic Gaza war


Friday, January 16, 2009
Purvottari
Explored the culture of North East at Purvottari.
Chicken Momos
Chicken Momos
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Personalities Clash
Interesting article on Psychology Today which talks on the issue of personality clashes .
Some excerpts from article :
Personality, that quirky grab bag of traits, tics, reactions, and beliefs that distinguish one person's projected self from another's, is the wild card of the workplace. Whereas most of the stressors we encounter at the office can be scheduled, delegated, avoided, or at least reimbursed, the personalities of one's coworkers remain the uncontrolled variable. True, that variable largely recedes, swept under by the conforming tsunami of office culture, professionalism, and sheer workload. Still, our selves sneak out, and when they do they often offend someone. Of course, some selves are more offensive to us than others. Predictably, at one time or another you will share a work team, a cubicle, or a reporting relationship with one of those that offends you. Then you will get to experience first-hand that most commonly reported office problem: the personality conflict.
Cease-fire for a Personality Conflict
If you are caught in an unpleasant struggle with an irritating colleague, here are some ways to extricate yourself.
Resist recruiting allies. It's reassuring to find evidence that "I'm not the only one who thinks our boss is a disorganized mess." But the more you bond over the negative, the larger that negative looms in your own life.
Focus on strengths. Remind yourself of the contributions your adversary does make—to the team, to the company, and especially, if you can find it, to your own work. This will take the edge off your annoyance.
Get out of the way. Some personalities push buttons so personally sensitive that you are able only to cringe. If you can't diminish the intensity of your reaction, at least reduce your contact.
Look in the mirror. Not everyone at your office is as affected by the other's personality as you are. If you can figure out your role in the dynamic or the source of your response, you'll learn something important about yourself.
Some excerpts from article :
Personality, that quirky grab bag of traits, tics, reactions, and beliefs that distinguish one person's projected self from another's, is the wild card of the workplace. Whereas most of the stressors we encounter at the office can be scheduled, delegated, avoided, or at least reimbursed, the personalities of one's coworkers remain the uncontrolled variable. True, that variable largely recedes, swept under by the conforming tsunami of office culture, professionalism, and sheer workload. Still, our selves sneak out, and when they do they often offend someone. Of course, some selves are more offensive to us than others. Predictably, at one time or another you will share a work team, a cubicle, or a reporting relationship with one of those that offends you. Then you will get to experience first-hand that most commonly reported office problem: the personality conflict.
Cease-fire for a Personality Conflict
If you are caught in an unpleasant struggle with an irritating colleague, here are some ways to extricate yourself.
Resist recruiting allies. It's reassuring to find evidence that "I'm not the only one who thinks our boss is a disorganized mess." But the more you bond over the negative, the larger that negative looms in your own life.
Focus on strengths. Remind yourself of the contributions your adversary does make—to the team, to the company, and especially, if you can find it, to your own work. This will take the edge off your annoyance.
Get out of the way. Some personalities push buttons so personally sensitive that you are able only to cringe. If you can't diminish the intensity of your reaction, at least reduce your contact.
Look in the mirror. Not everyone at your office is as affected by the other's personality as you are. If you can figure out your role in the dynamic or the source of your response, you'll learn something important about yourself.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Friday, January 09, 2009
Good Quote
Had been to latest Aamir Khan movie Ghajini inspired from Hollywood movie Memento. I had not heard of the actress Asin before this movie and she looked stunning. The movie was ok type....pathetic as per Suhas who was accompanying me in cinema theater in Pune.
Now today while going through the newspaper came across article on interview of the same actress. One thing which struck very right after browsing through some of the questions asked to her... she mentioned her dad telling her to stick to this: " Never let success get to your head and failure to your heart" . I wonder though how long she is going to continue on it in the glamour world ;).
I tried to look for who coined this quote first and this is what I could find out. " Never let success get to your head and never let failure get to your heart.~Daphne Maxwell-Reid, star from the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air ."
Now today while going through the newspaper came across article on interview of the same actress. One thing which struck very right after browsing through some of the questions asked to her... she mentioned her dad telling her to stick to this: " Never let success get to your head and failure to your heart" . I wonder though how long she is going to continue on it in the glamour world ;).
I tried to look for who coined this quote first and this is what I could find out. " Never let success get to your head and never let failure get to your heart.~Daphne Maxwell-Reid, star from the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air ."
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